XIX

Yay! So it’s finally here, the last year of teenage life.

Ooh, I got a really odd feeling, while Tiff and I were counting down the last few seconds of 18ness. I was afraid that it would be like any other birthday you know like ‘meh I feel the same’. But this time it was different. The first second of my new year, there was a jolt, almost electric, that surged through my mind/heart, and throughout. It was like a surge of energy, which is very weird, since the last few years, it’s felt more like a draining sensation.

But this time, I felt a huge urge to jump around shout and dance! Of course that urge went unsatisfied (too tired from walking in the thunderstorm for 5 hours), but the feeling is there even now. I feel more energetic, more alive and filled with vitality than I ever have for any birthday since 12. What does this mean?

And also! for the first time since I turned twelve (in the amazing year of 1997) I’m actually happy for my birthday! This is an amazing feeling. I’ve grown so much in the last seven years grown from silly little insane kid, to traumatized Korean junior high kid, to lost underclassman kid, and now, as a senior, I’ve finally come to accept all that I am, and all that I have been; this year, I face the future, end of high school, beginning of college, the end of teenageness, and the new challenges that will inevitably be in all of these, with a hope that I was afraid I lost years ago. I am alive now, I am ready to take on the world once more. In the words of Kirsten Dunst (and not Bush), “Bring it on!”

What am I going to write to myself? I have no idea. For those who don’t know, I have a tradition of writing my future self a letter on every birthday; just a period of extra-self reflection. The last one was filled with fear, depression, anxiety, a tinge of hope and a lot of dread for the coming end of high school. But now, I have none of those well, actually I have all of those, but optimism rules! In this new light of seeing things, what can I say?

(letter removed )

So yep, yet another chapter has closed in my still already long long LONG book of life. What awaits me now? I do not know but I shall never lose my hope. Thank you everyone that has sustained me throughout the year, your guidance has kept me on track, and made me who I am now.

Many thanks!

Haha–and thanks to all the wonderful people that called on this new day–

Do I feel any different? Haha–just ask me how old I am, and watch me give pause.

Relay for Life @ Hubble Middle School

Relay for Life = walking in the rain for 5 hours!  I’d love the rain, if only if it wasn’t so cold! See, quite unlike Dev, I am quite human, and I perceive coldness as a threat. But it was fun~ .

Oh and Hubble IS a sad place; they’ve got a gym with 60 year old homemade bleachers, and a track that’s growing grass! Seriously, the rubber layer is so patchy that grass is growing out of it.

Check out this prison (complete with a guard box by the metal cage doors)

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The Hope Bags with names with the lights on…

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And then… in darkness!

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And the track–with Woodstock style tents, music, and decent lights.

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Since it was birthday eve, I counted down the hours till midnight–it’s actually kinda fun (especially when there’s nothign to do except walk walk and walk!) It was the first time since I turned 14 that that I was actually with someone during the crossover… the last hours of 18 and the first hours of 19, it was very comforting. I’ll definitely do the same next year!

I stayed till about 2 AM, Tiff abandoned her post (like everyone else). Then it was time to go home… 1 year older.

  • bon anniversaire a toi

    bon anniversaire a toi

    bon anniversaire a Alle-hoo

    bon anniversaire a toi

    I hope you have a good last year of teenageness 🙂

  • happy birthday!!!!

    ur 18!!!!

  • happy birthday! happy  19th birhday… wow… you’re so old…  

    lol, its not that i dont precieve cold as a threat… its more like i aknowledge its presence, realize nothing can be done about it, then push it away.

  • hehe. you’re so old. Way to update right as I leave a comment :)! just had to say, HAPPY BIRTHDAY again :)!
  • oh wow

    thaz pretty cool.

    l.li

  • Happy Birthday! Nice photos…hehe.
  • happy birthday ya old man~ hahaha…
  • happpy bday

    and how are u 19 and still in hs??!?! o.O?

  • happy birthday

    now you can do stuff kids can’t do, but just don’t do anything illegal ok? ^-^

  • Sweet man

    Congrats dude

    is seventeen supposed to feel the same way? because I didn’t feel ne different either
    well props to you for thrning 19 and well stepping one step closer to a new maturity plateau……hahah that doesn’t sound like its gonna amount to much, yet I can’t help but think that you’re gonna be able to stand up to all the shit thats gonna fly at you and later me, when we’re in college…better than me

    hope you had a kick ass time

    9 more days for me and well….less than that for you

    Matt

  • OMG YOU OLD MAN!! happy 19th birthday….hmm, it makes me sad that such an amazing class of seniors is leaving North this year…::gets teary eyed:: ehh jk jk…anyways enjoy your last days as a senior cause soon you’ll be a freshie again!!